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Conflict Style Test

16 conflict types · Peace Index

100 questions across four axes — Approach, Processing, Stance, Recovery — place you in one of 16 types, with a Conflict Profile and your Peace Index. Facing head-on or stepping back, both are valid, neither better.

Approach

Do you face conflict or keep your distance

C ConfrontW Step-back

Processing

Heart-first or facts-first

H HeartR Reason

Stance

Push your view or take theirs in

P PushY Yield

Recovery

Settle on the spot or cool off first

N NowL Later

Preview

You answer items like these on a 6-point scale, from “Strongly agree” to “Strongly disagree.”

  • 1When opinions clash, I tend to bring it up and work it out right then and there.
  • 2In an argument, the other person's feelings catch my eye before whether they're right.
  • 3When I feel I'm right, I'll keep persuading until my point lands.
  • 4When my feelings are hurt, I'd rather cool off and talk later than settle it on the spot.

Conflict Style Test

100 questions, four axes, 16 types + a Peace Index. No login — one keep number lets you pause, resume, and revisit.

Only your numeric answers are stored; no identifying information is kept.

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